By: Busuyi Ojo-Jobus
Note that Females are the most beautiful and talented creature on Earth and this gender is capable of recreating theirselves to be more presentable.
Talking about how talented they, it is only the females that remove their natural hair and replace it with the wigs or attachment, what about the eye lashes, eye brows, the make up, changing of complexion, wearing heels to improve the heights, adding artificial nails, painting lips, artificial bums and breasts, eye balls attachments, these help them make their beauty more perfect and colorful, there is no amount of corrections or suggestions that will change their mind from being presentable.
Therefore as a man, do not ever do this to a girl you plan to marry; do not entice her with money or other resources, it will never work, the gender is a different nature, they love whoever they want to love in gradual process, no man can compel them into love, (ko le werk) because females like to do whatever they want to do, if it seems a lady love you because you are giving her presents, sending money to her account every day, she may only be carried away because of what you are giving and this may make her look a little bit confused, she will not find happiness in the relationship, if you compel a woman or entice her to marry you, she may be the one to kill you if care is not taken, because she didn't love you initially.
Therefore, stop giving money to girls for love, money don't make women live but to be happy for a while, it is the way you care for them that will make them to love you, you also need to learn how to say yes to all their wishes and thoughts, let their opinion count even if it seems not making sense, make them free, women like all these.
Lastly, try not to marry any girl who you are too older than, it causes problems, the girl can't stay in that relationship, she would want to exercise freedom by doing what her friends that have not married are doing, meanwhile, the love you think you have for her may not make her free. Most men see their women as their babies, she is rather a mother you need to know the fact that no wife is little, she sees better than you, it is you that will need to listen to her if you want to live long.
You may like to experiment it, as a 35 years old man, try to be in relationship with a girl of 18 years and see what happens.
The only thing you can do to your woman is to pet her like you do to your mother when she is angry at you, keep doing this till she believes and trust you better before she would submit to you, that is when you have an edge, becomes the head the Bible was talking about. Support your woman, they are very good in managements, give them chance to exploit, empower them to be useful especially in Political affairs.