Relationships can be quite difficult to handle most times but when carefully and deliberately worked on by both willing parties, it becomes a beautiful experience.
Sadly, most young people go through the trauma of a failed and toxic relationship due to various misconceptions about the concept, misplaced priorities, vague and unrealistic expectations from their partners.
But how can it work when most females are led to believe that sex is all a man wants? Thus, they end up ignoring other important factors.
Having said so, the question remains. What do men really need, relationship wise?
Below I will be listing some of the highlights of what a man needs.
1) Respect
A man needs to be respected at all times. Even when he is wrong.
We must first acknowledge that men are very emotional! Although they may sound and appear harsh and seem strong, deep down they are very soft.
You may be wondering if this is true, because your man is hard. Well, babe, you made him hard.
Humans are generally insatiable, but when it comes to relationships, your priority is to please the one you love. Respect him full time.
Even if you're supposed to be friends, you have to realize that you can never be equals. Now, this does not apply to physical assault. In fact, the first day your man raises his to assault you when both of you are not married, pack your load, your mind, your love and leave!
2) Pampered
Men also want to be pampered. Well, you do not call him "baby" for nothing. Imagine a man away from the love of his family, left to survive on his own. He will easily adapt to a place that fits his description of home.
Men want intimacy, not just sexually but emotionally.
Interestingly, selfishness prompts most girls to program pampering as a female treat.
All Campus Show, discovered from the majority of our male respondents that they loved to be pampered.
Especially on difficult days, females should also reciprocate the care and pampering they receive.
3) Support
Amongst other needs, a man needs to be supported by his partner at all times.
Love is not enough by what you say but your actions. General, men like it when they are understood because it gives them a sense of emotional safety.
4) Men deserve maximum support from their partners
A feedback from a male student reveal that "When it comes to relationships, we men need a woman that is very supportive, caring, hardworking, romantic, and respectful."
Yes, every man has their own choice, but for me, the kind of woman I want to share a relationship with must be very caring and supportive."
When a woman is supportive in a relationship, it is extremely hard for that relationship to fall apart.
4) Good Communication/Understanding
Lastly, relationships can be managed when there is a common ground for understanding.
In the absence of those, frustration is unavoidable. Even the holy book says "two cannot work together except if they agree."
In addition, woman must note that total dependency on their boyfriend is wrong. They are not yet married so they shouldn't depend on them for upkeep and day to day means of survival.
The guy might even be passing through worst situation than you coupled with family responsibility. Please don't be a liability, instead be an asset.
In conclusion, the concept of relationship mostly attracts diverse personalities.
Relationships require a lot of effort to keep the fire burning between the partners involved.
Therefore females must acknowledge that the life of a male is not easy.
Moreover, no one vibes smoothly with a nagging and selfish partner.
Also, men are most times is faced with several responsibilities and having to cope with the daily pangs of life, so they always yearn for peace of mind and expect their relationship to be a haven. Therefore they will not hesitate to leave if their peace is threatened.