In a recent address, Edo State First Lady Betsy Obaseki commented on the marital status of the state's top gubernatorial candidates, noting that only Asue Ighodalo of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) is married. While it is important to acknowledge the personal lives and family values of those vying for public office, Mrs. Obaseki's remarks inadvertently invite unnecessary scrutiny into the private lives of candidates, potentially distracting from more pressing issues that demand attention in Edo State.
At the same time, it is equally important to condemn the insensitive remarks made by former Governor Adams Oshiomole, who mocked the First Lady's childlessness. Such personal attacks have no place in political discourse and only serve to sow seeds of discord and animosity among citizens. Political campaigns should focus on policy proposals, visions for the future, and solutions to the challenges facing the people of Edo State.
Instead of engaging in personal attacks, all candidates and their supporters must prioritize discussing the issues that matter most to the people of Edo State, such as economic development, infrastructure, healthcare, and education. In doing so, they will demonstrate their commitment to the betterment of the state and its citizens, setting an example of responsible and respectful leadership that transcends partisan divides.
While it is understandable that personal anecdotes and experiences can contribute to shaping a candidate's worldview and policy priorities, comments like those made by Betsy Obaseki and Adams Oshiomole can create an atmosphere of judgment and intolerance. The insinuation that a candidate's marital status or parental status holds significance in their ability to lead effectively is misguided and unfair.
It is crucial to remember that political campaigns should revolve around a battle of ideas, policy proposals, and visions for the future. Rather than resorting to personal attacks or highlighting irrelevant aspects of a candidate's life, political figures should focus on discussing tangible solutions to the challenges facing their constituents.
Moreover, the role of a leader extends beyond their familial relationships; it encompasses their dedication to public service, empathy for their constituents, and the ability to develop effective policies that improve the lives of those they serve. Instead of criticizing candidates' personal lives, we should hold them accountable for their actions, track records, and stances on critical issues.
As the Edo State gubernatorial race continues, it is our hope that candidates and their supporters will refrain from engaging in personal attacks and prioritize respectful, productive discourse that fosters a healthy democratic process. By focusing on issues that matter most to Edo State citizens, we can collectively build a brighter future for the state and its people.
I’m Chief Dr Patrick Osagie Eholor otherwise known as Ultinate Equal, President One Love Foundation